Wedding Diaries

 Hi beauties,

Loveeeee is in the air. My brother got married yesterday! We definitely had a time chile. There was eye candy in the building yall omg. (being the little sister of the groom is not fun lol) So I had plans for an entry, but honestly I am so exhausted and hungover from the weekend, my brain is on overload. However, I did want to get on to show you girlies the wedding fit! 

-Missus Twenty Sumthing, xoxo.

New Season of Me

 Hi Beauties,

Wanted to hop on really quick since it's the first day of fall! Although i'm a summer baby, fall will always have a special place in my heart. There's a certain nostalgia hidden in the season. Somehow, fall has a way of bringing back pieces of yourself you didn't realize you had left behind. You start remembering the small things, the excitement of Halloween, friday night football games, old friendships, old crushes lol. You remember sweaters that no longer fit, places that no longer look the same, and people who may only exist in your life now as a memory attached to a season. And I think that's what makes fall feel so emotional. It doesn't just remind you of what happened, it reminds you of who you were when it happened. While it does make room for remembering, it also makes room for becoming. For me this year, I don't want fall to only be about looking back. I want to notice it while I'm in it. I want to remember those small things, the songs I play while getting ready, the outfits I wear, and the people I spend time with. I want to be present enough to recognize that these days will one day be memories as well. I want slow mornings and pretty nights. I want to cook and read more. I want to dress up and go to dinner with my girls, solo dates, good perfume lingering, fresh flowers, and my nights spent tucked away in my own little world. I want to romanticize the ordinary, knowing that one day the ordinary might be what I miss most. 

So here's a list of all the little things I will be romanticizing this fall :

• romanticizing school and studying instead of complaining 
• going on solo dates
• going to start back going to the farmers market 
• buying myself fresh flowers
• trying new recipes
• rewatching my fall comfort movies
• taking pictures of ordinary days
• getting dressed up for dinner with my girls
• spending more evenings offline 
• doing charcuterie for fun again
• celebrating the little accomplishments 

What are some things you might be romanticizing this fall? let me know in the comments.

Until next time, stay cozy, stay cute, and romanticize every little fall moment, Happy first day of fall ladies! 🍁 💕

-Missus Twenty Something, xoxo.

i LOVE heels!

I need the baddest heffas to da flo! 

I ended my night out at 5:56AM, my bff and i <3 just us, mary jane, good laughs and conversation. Started doing a little scrolling and came across two steals on TRR boo! These Ferragamo heels are just too darn FAB! The lucite wedge heel and cage straps, ughhhhhhh omg! and yall these little cutise pony hair Sergio Rossi heels are so cute and perfect for the fall. and the prices, just chef's kiss!💋 Sadly neither are my size, but ya'll know i have to loop ya'll! (linked under my fashion finds tab) #hatingbad#bigfootproblems 

Happy Shopping to the beautiful ladies that fall in love with these shoes like i did!

-Missus Twenty Sumthing, xoxo.

THE H.B.I.C🧀💕

Beauties who would I be if I didn't share my pride and joy with you all omg

I am proudly the owner of The Head Board In Charge, The H.B.I.C. ✨ I specialize in charcuterie boards, boxes, grazing & more! ~my little origin story of The H.B.I.C, started back in 2021. I was looking to start a new hobby and came across charcuterie. It was sooo fun learning about the pairing of cheeses, jams, jellies, wines etc >_<  So my god sister asked if could make a board for her fall house warming, to which i obliged. I was so excited to craft my first board ever. Yall I sketched out my board on my Ipad and everything lol Ya girl was not playing. Then I started working  at Apricot Lane Boutique, 2022. The owner was hosting her first pop up in the store, she asked us if we knew if any one that did char-coochie boards. I jumped so fast to let her know I could do the board. From there she encouraged me to start my own business and that i did boo! s/o to her for that.  Here we are 2026, I took a break, I had such a demanding schedule earlier in the year, full time job, full time student, blah blah yk the rest. My load has lightened a bit, but with being an unemployed baddie, susta cat needs some funds! 😭 Every time I touch a board I fall back in love again. Im ready to get back into the swing of things and kick my business off full throttle ! Enjoy this little evolution of my craft ;)

my first ever board <333 

circa 2021.

first pop up board 

circa 2022.

spooky boxes 👻 

circa 2023.

thanksgiving board for my most supportive client 

circa 2023.

my fav grazing that i've done

circa 2025.

            

-The H.B.I.C, aka Missus Twenty Sumthing, xoxo.

Undiagnosed, or are you Just LAzy?

 

                         

Not to self diagnoseeee, but...

Have you ever had this feeling where you wanted to do everything in world, so you do nothing at all??

I've been trying to put this feeling into words. Overwhelmed,

beating myself up. Its like I go through this same cycle, time after time.

Consistency? Oh she doesn't know me.

The desire is there, but the follow through is non existent. I've been finding solace in this blog, however I've been met with feelings of guilt as well. Why was is it so effortless for me to create this blog, but laborious to study for my exam. The questions, "Am I just lazy", "Do you really want to be in grad school", "Do you really want change your life", crowd my brain like my browser with 50 tabs open- what seems like a million times they have.

Quick Thoughts

Hi Beauties!

Chileeeee, when I tell you my mind is filled with everything but the want to study. I'm struggling :/ I don't know if is this Adhd, ADD, abcd IDK! Its a million things running through my mind and I cannot find the silence button to focus. I figured if I allowed my self to write some thoughts, then maybe that would free up space. 

I'm not sure if I have a lack of interest in my courses this semester or if it's a total lack of interest in completing the program. Burnout maybe? Im so close to the finish line, but I am overrrrrrr it. 

Honestly, I'm at the point where I'm ready to re-enter the workforce and just get on with my life. 

I've drawn a blank, I guess that means I need to get back to studying!

-signed a distracted baddie, Missus Twenty Sumthing xoxo.

 

First Entry!

 Hi beauties! Im Ari.

This is my first blog post, a test run I suppose. Im writing currently at 1:39 AM, when I should be studying. >_<  I'm a MBA candidate graduating in the spring!! WOOHOO But seriously, I have an accounting exam on Thursday that I should be studying for. (priorities lol) I won't write too much tonight, but i'm very excited to start this blog. I haven't had a hobby I've been this excited about in a while. By the time anyone sees this, I will have my pages set up and more entries. 

-Missus Twenty Sumthing, xoxo.